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Christian Porn Addiction

Christian porn addiction is weakening believers’ power to live a Christ-centered life. Pornography inhibits personal devotion and faith, and turns people away from Christ.

Unfortunately, many Christians consume pornography. TopTenReviews.com reported that 47% of Christians said that pornography is a major problem in the home. This in spite of consistent teachings in Christian Churches about the impropriety of viewing porn.

The dangers of pornography and the effects of viewing pornography clearly illustrate its negative influence on peoples’ minds and behavior.

Christian porn addiction is keeping believers of Christ from following Him. Pornography, a great stumbling block, turns good people into servants of sin.

“The spirit indeed is willing, but the flesh is weak.” (Matthew 26:41, King James Version)

Teachings of Christ

A Christian by definition is a professed disciple of Jesus Christ. A disciple is someone who follows a leader’s teachings. To be a true disciple or follower of Christ one must understand His teachings, believe them and follow them.

What did Christ teach about appropriate sexual conduct, and how can it help overcome Christian porn addiction?

“Whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.” (Matthew 5:28)

God’s commandments and feelings about the sanctity of marriage and approved sexual conduct are further expressed here:

“Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.” (Genesis 2:24)

“Thou shalt not commit adultery.” (Exodus 20:14)

The word adultery comes from old French and Latin roots to describe the voluntary corruption of sacred marriage vows, particularly the violation of the chaste relationship between husband and wife.

The principle here is one of unlawful substitution. Adultery is substituting an association that a man or woman has with pornography for his or her covenanted spouse.

Consider the marriage vows exchanged in the presence of God and witnesses:

“Do you take (her name) as your lawfully wedded wife, and do you of your own free will and choice covenant as her companion and lawfully wedded husband that you will cleave unto her and none else; that you will observe all the laws, covenants, and obligations pertaining to the holy state of matrimony; and that you will love, honor, and cherish her as long as you both shall live?”

Where in this covenant is there room for another person, let alone another thing?

In the case of unmarried people, unlawful conduct is called fornication. The principles are closely related. In God’s law, sacred sexual powers are only to be used inside the lawful union of man and wife. Outside of marriage, single or married, the use of sacred sexual processes are forbidden by God.

The problem of Christian porn addiction

The problem with Christian porn addiction is that many believers are suffering in their ability to follow Christ and become like Him. They are diminished in their effectiveness.

“And he said to them all, If any man will come after me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross daily, and follow me.” (Luke 9:23)

Avoiding pornography is one way each believer must “deny himself.” Controlling sexual urges and keeping them within God’s boundaries builds character strength. It’s another venue for becoming like Christ.

As a Christian, porn addiction distances you from the throne of Grace. It keeps you from feeling the power of Christ in your life. Learning and overcoming “the lusts of the flesh” (2 Peter 2:18) draw you closer to Him.

The need to control your sexual impulses is succinctly explained by Will and Ariel Durrant, authors of ten volumes on the study of twenty civilizations:

“No one man [or woman], however brilliant or well-informed, can come in one lifetime to such fullness of understanding as to safely judge and dismiss the customs or institutions of his society, for these are the wisdom of generations after centuries of experiment in the laboratory of history.

“A youth boiling with hormones will wonder why he should not give full freedom to his sexual desires; and if he is unchecked by custom, morals, or laws, he may ruin his life before he matures sufficiently to understand that sex is a river of fire that must be banked and cooled by a hundred restraints if it is not to consume in chaos both the individual and the group.” (emphasis added)

Ending Christian porn addiction

As a Christian, you have the added blessing of being able to approach God in the name of Christ to help you overcome your addition.

The correct way to pray for help is different than you might think. Overcoming porn addiction is about eliminating all thoughts about the addiction. Quit even thinking about the fact that you want to overcome it. Instead, starting thinking about new things and work on getting good at new things.

Your prayers ought to be something like:

  • Help me as I work to be a better husband or father
  • Please guide me in my efforts to do better in my job or in school
  • Help me as I strive to fulfill those worthwhile goals I’ve always wanted to do
  • And a hundred other things that center your life on doing good, uplifting, worthwhile activities.

In other words, pray for help in doing things that will make you a better person. Don’t pray that God will change you. (And while you’re at it, don’t forget to thank Him for your host of blessings!)

Christian porn addiction will end when believers focus on thinking and doing other things. All of your thoughts must be engaged somewhere else, not on your addiction.

Remember: sex is a divine blessing to be used with restraint and good judgment. Like fire, under control it will warm and help you. Out of control, it will destroy you.

A Game Plan

The key to receiving divine help in overcoming porn addiction is to implement a game plan that will enable you to win this battle.

Here’s a game plan that really works, a proven plan that can set you up to win. You or your loved one can be on the road to freedom from porn addiction today.


Recent medical science is confirming that you cannot think or discipline yourself into changing a habit by focusing on the habit itself. That only reinforces the habit. For an explanation of how the brain develops habits and how to overcome them, click here: Stop Porn Addiction.

For more help on overcoming pornography addiction, click here: Overcoming Porn Addiction.

Habits are the result of repeated acts, and acts are preceded by thoughts. The principle that governs how to change your habits is known as the Law of Displacement. Click here for more on changing thoughts and the Law of Displacement.

For more information on addiction recovery, click here: Addiction Recovery.

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